Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Happy 2015!!





I am working from San Francisco.
Feel free to send out regards to me.
San Francisco is a lovely place.
I have connected with many communities.
Imagine me joining a dirt bike trail club?
Or a book reading club?
Or a seniors' care club?
Come on do not let the fun pass you by.
For more information, send a comment or two to me.
Thomas, the perennial activist.
Before I forget, happy 2015!

Saturday, February 1, 2014

New in Worcester, MA or you came as an Asylum Seeker. Read this please.

You are a new person to USA. You could be lucky and get to live with an American who may show you the ropes. It could be a community such as a church. Hadwen Park Church in Worcester, MA is one such community.

You were chased out of a home you grew up from. This could be right here in USA or you could be a non-resident/ non citizen. It means you left another country to come to USA.
It is the reason you are here. This country has what one calls assimilation or integration milestones. Like a baby who is born without teeth, there comes a time when the teeth will grow. This is called "teething." It is a milestone. Your stay here has the same milestones. The milestones revolve around these points.
Let us unpack the issues:
1. Housing: You need somewhere to stay. It is your mailing address too. A house is where you are warm, have food and live with other people. It is imperative that you are watching your house keeping and management practices. At all times, seek advice, ask questions on how to operate household instruments. Discuss your general and food preferences and ask about your hosts preferences too.
2. Employment: This will take time. You may engage in voluntary work. But, until you have your work authorization card do watch your penny and needs. The card will be in the mail once you have met the eligible time of waiting.
3. Spiritual growth and development: You may have been told "you are evil" and this common from all the anecdotes I have collected from asylum seekers. This emotional assault needs healing. You need to join a spiritual community. USA has many of them. Hadwen Park Church in Worcester is a welcoming church for all. Try it. It is found in Worcester, MA.
4. Insurance: You will get this from a health facility. It is your money on a card in case you get ill and need treatment.
5. Livelihood: You may have to give up the kind of transactions you engaged in back home. You may not be making money the way you used to. You may not be meeting with people and friends the way it used to be back home. Adjust to this new life. Do take time to ask around. Join volunteer teams. Universities have community clean up teams, reading clubs, Environment day teams, jogging teams and singing teams. You will never go wrong. Join a team to increase on your 'community' dimension. About this time you can learn driving or polish your driving. For those coming from former British colonies ( well ,I mean other colonies and not America!), you drive on the left hand side. In USA, we drive on the right hand side.
6. Security: Know your way around cities and neighborhoods. Have your documentation in order ( yes, that passport is important). Do not make wrong turns or be seen loitering in neighborhoods where you are new.
7. Citizenship: You come as an asylum seeker. You have to file your application through a lawyer at a specific time. You may then be directed where to go for your biometrics. Later, you will be given a schedule for your hearing. Once successful, your status becomes: a resident green card holder.
8. Child rearing: You may have come with a child or children. Seek advice on child care in the health facility near you. Attend those meetings in order to learn so much about child welfare in USA.
9. Positive parenting: As a parent also attend parenting workshops. This will help you in understanding parenting.
10. Accountability: If you happen to live with other people in the community or a house there are expectations you all have. Meeting these expectations, minding about others and not disappointing them constitutes accountability. Be an accountability practitioner.
11. Taking stock of action and decisions: Do you write something down? Do you make notes? Well, if you do also note some of your activities down. Join others in the chores at the home you live in. No one will make the bed you lie in but yourself.
12. Decision-making:You came to USA. Your English is different, it is good or it may be such that you need to attend the English as Second Language class-ESL. Join ESL if you always find your self talking something like "English." Many have failed to get work in USA because of that.
13. Associations: Join an association, such as: YMCA, YWCA or any other.
14. Conflict with law: Learn what the police wants.
15. Illnesses. sickness and health-care: Regularly visit a health facility. Most especially watch your dental, skin and ear and eye health.
16. Remittances: You may have started working and back home from your original country are one or two people you need to send money to. Watch out for scam money transfer offices!
17. Social networks: Twitter, face book, blogs constitute part of your social networks. The physical communities such as churches, school, community and hobbies should be another area you need to enrich.
18. Professionalism: start with GED, go on to join a formal training. The education system of USA is envied worldwide. Get the certificates, diplomas and all the degrees you can. WATCH OUT! Diploma mills are lurking in the dark.
19. Health Chronic illnesses, weight watching, nutrition and Aging: Engage in health education on these subjects. Get to do the exercises too.
20. Treatment of your remains in case of death: Have you considered the fact that you may die, like now? Arrange to have your remains treated with dignity. Leave instructions and...pay for the service while you are alive.
21. Asset building: It is possible to make it in USA. Yes, join the chamber of commerce or workforce or business training ( a friend calls it "terraining"). Your financial dimensions will grow in direct proportion to effort, timing and planning for money.
22. Voluntarism: Volunteer as much as possible. I have made more friends through this than I have made as a scientist!
23. Subscription and membership to clubs or organizations: Pay to play. I heard that from a friend.I want to add: pay to have say.
24. Vacations: Rest as much as possible.
25. Altruism and philanthropy: Give because someone gave in order for you to be here. Those first days you arrived in USA, someone came for you, someone called your phone. That money was as a result of someone who donated some money or a large lump some. Thank you in advance.

Saturday, January 4, 2014

The Cold New England January; a close look at black and white lines!

The Cold Problem and a Hot Solution


Ms. Luchenco Anna-Maria of about 55 years is a very dedicated female bus driver. She has been in the transport industry for over 10 years where she has served diligently. In a few years she is destined to retire with her husband to Orlando Florida (a warmer climate). All this information is shared with the familiar passengers who sit at the front section and who happen to know her well. She and her husband will leave their Worcester home to their two sons and one daughter. Luchenco’s blue bus is clean inside and the upholstery is not stained. She seems to know all the people who get on the bus. There is a ‘good-morning’ here, a ‘how-is-the-baby’ there and quick chit-chats that end as soon as one has paid for or checked in a valid pass. The bus cabin is so warm and on a day like this that registered 3 degrees Fahrenheit she cannot tell the difference outside. The normal bodily temperature is between 98-100 degrees (F). The lowest recorded temperatures where a body survived was 55.4 degrees (F). The body gets so cold that one’s bones, especially behind the ear get to be painful. This is the path to hypothermia. If there is persistent exposure it gets to the point when one is disoriented. It can lead to death in extreme cases. Coldness itself is so uncomfortable!
On this day (January 22nd 2013), Worcester averaged 3 degrees (F); a very cold wind blew leaves and light debris that could be air-borne. The street joining Main Street and Major Taylor Boulevard was where a gust of wind almost threw me down! The bottle of water I had got so cold. The cap was frozen hard and fast. The jacket was a very cold garment. It became a strait-jacket that held me in very cold chains which only got broken once I got into a warm building.
My experience started at Tatnuck Brook Bridge. Tatnuck Brook Bridge has a bus stop where drivers have a well-deserved short lunch break. Now, ‘this bus stop is not a pedestrian stop’. I got a condescending lecture by Ms. Luchenco on the meaning of a bus stop and pedestrian stop. I wanted to go to some business downtown.. I use a bus as my means of travel. It has always been routine and not objective. It was a ‘get-to-bus-stop-wait-for-sometime-bus-arrives-door-opens-say-hullo-to-driver-while-paying-quickly-get-to-your-sit’ subjectivity. That is all the effort I had tuned my body to execute and no more! I do read books on the bus, so I reserve energy for the books I carry with me. I choose places where am able to pull out my book while the bus moves. This day provided me a different opportunity into the experiences of riding a bus.
There is a universal language in all cities. A bus stop is not hard to see. It may be a clearing on the road-side or a stop area with a metal sign having a bus and a word stop. An idling bus on wheels at a stop area is so re-assuring on a 3 degrees (F) cold day. I walked from the ‘pedestrian stop’ towards the ‘bus stop’ which was 20 meters away from me. I wanted to keep warm.
“No one boards from here, just you stay at the pedestrian stop,” yelled this Ms. Luchenco behind thick windows in a warm bus cabin. I looked askance. Did Ms. Know it was a very cold day out here? “You better hurry, in the next minute I may pass that stop,” she continued pointing repeatedly at the stop 20 meters away.
I walked back and the bus picked me up. I thanked Ms. Luchenco and paid for a full day fare. I also told her it was very cold outside, three times. She did not seem to realise why I kept saying it was so cold outside the bus. She started the bus as she continued asking me whether I was new to the City and the bus. I did not answer her but pointed at the notice that said: ‘stand away from a yellow line while bus is moving’. I went and sat down. I pulled out a book and as I was opening it she asked again. “Have you ever been on a bus?” I said yes. I also told her to not yell at pedestrians. I told her she is in an industry calling for humane hospitality. Then I got back to my book.
At the next Congregational Church stop on Pleasant Street we picked up Emeralda Gomez with whom they chatted about the Obama-Biden Inauguration and later bed-bugs! At Christ the King Church stop we picked up Gregory Barnes an African-American. Ms. Luchenco asked if she had ever yelled at him. He was surprised at the question but said no. “What would be the reason anyway?” he replied. I got in at that point when she told him “the gentleman in yellow has just said so about me”. “I don’t yell at people,” she reassured herself loudly. I emphasized she yelled at me. When Gregory Barnes realized I could speak eloquently about the issue, he came and sat next to me. He talked to me while pointing at the back of the palm (a sign for me to ignore everything but to also know that in my position, as a black man, it should not come as a surprise). I did not say any word after. Gregory (An African American) told me of his experience too.  He said it loudly so that Ms. Luchenco would hear too. The bus that went before ours had just passed the stop! He, because of the cold, had to go to the near-by Church to stay warm. The janitor had refused to let him in at first until he produced a Bible. We moved on up to the stop next to Becker College and picked Reginald Brown (African American from New York and a substance abuse withdrawal counselor). Reginald Brown on a supervisory visit to Worcester City, also shared his experience of that bus that did not stop to pick him up and two colleagues. The other two colleagues were Dally Matthew and Rodriguez Jesus. Dally is Hispanic and attends the drug-addiction/withdrawal support group on Pleasant Street before the Worcester Commons. Jesus is a Latino from Tacoma Worcester Housing Authority, sector 8 units.
The driver was sharing her story with Emeralda. She had just heard from her family. They were reminding her to buy anti-pest sprays. Reginald Brown from New York remarked he had pests and bed-bugs in his neighbourhood and it was a daily occurrence there! As soon as the bus moved Dally fell asleep! I did not get to hear him talk, except when he acknowledged his names as they were introduce to me. Rodriguez went to a corner by himself! We moved on up to the Commons and when I got out I thanked Ms. Luchenco for driving us up this destination and off I went! It was an experience for me.  Reginald Brown is the drug-withdrawal support case manager for these two.
My conclusion is that, our drivers in the public transport sector need to be constantly reminded that in a hospitality-based industry human needs are vast. These needs most of the times cause us to open doors for people to get warm and cosy in our buses, even if it may not be a normal procedure!

Bi-cycling in the "country"; a pictorial essay

Recreation in USA!

Bicycle ride towards Holden City, Massachusetts, USA

Riding my Peugeot!

Road holding is good. I challenge Lance Armstrong.I betcha I ride faster than him!

Near Worcester Water Reservoir built around 1910!

Ride-xercising!

The bar!

Your Diet makes or Breaks You!

Talk Points on Diet and nourishment as lifestyle practices

Chicken, celery, eggs and spiced rice
Fish fillets and pie
Fruit cocktail

The mango
Whole meals


Tips on Citizenship and Immigration in USA!

Talk Points on Citizenship and Immigration

As someone who wants to pursue their life happily, integrate in the USA society fully, adjust to a US-Based life, we have designed this blog for you. It has five parameters within which you can gauge your self: You must have the desire to learn new things; do a deep dive into the forms that capture your needs; understand the design into which your needs are addressed; do a deep dive into citizenship and immigration laws and; lastly, engage in community dialogue platforms nearest to you.

BEST PRACTICES:
1. Take time to go through this website: +http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis
2. Believe it or not there are about 102 Immigration related forms in USA: +http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=db029c7755cb9010VgnVCM10000045f3d6a1RCRD&vgnextchannel=db029c7755cb9010VgnVCM10000045f3d6a1RCRD
3. There are resources to cater for your needs if you are un-documented or are not accessing the full services even if you are an immigrant at refugee or asylee level: +http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=ac419c7755cb9010VgnVCM10000045f3d6a1RCRD&vgnextchannel=ac419c7755cb9010VgnVCM10000045f3d6a1RCRD
4. The laws surrounding Citizenship and immigration: +http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=02729c7755cb9010VgnVCM10000045f3d6a1RCRD&vgnextchannel=02729c7755cb9010VgnVCM10000045f3d6a1RCRD
5. You too can contribute a point or two. You can even learn a point or two: +http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.eb1d4c2a3e5b9ac89243c6a7543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=ea015fc544007210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=ea015fc544007210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD

NB. Read all the other blogs to give you a rounded view of things.

One or all these are the most time consuming pre-occupations facing a new Person in USA!

Let us unpack the issues:
1. Housing.
2. Employment
3. Spiritual growth and development
4. Insurance
5. Livelihood
6. Security
7. Citizenship
8. Child rearing
9. Positive parenting
10. Accountability
11. Taking stock of action and decisions
12. Decision-making
13. Associations
14. Conflict with law
15. Illnesses. sickness and health-care
16. Remittances
17. Social networks
18. Professionalism
19. Health Chronic illnesses, weight watching, nutrition and Aging
20. Treatment of your remains in case of death.
21. Asset building
22. Voluntarism
23. Subscription and membership to clubs or organizations
24. Vacations
25. Altruism and philanthropy.